Saturday, November 15, 2008

last time i give you half of my grilled cheese.

i often find myself getting into conversations with other people about their past relationships or old friends and how they can't really seem to get over an ex or stop reminiscing about a broken friendship. every time i get into one of these conversations i tell whoever i'm talking with the same thing i'd tell anyone else asking me for advice on this particular subject, "life is change.. change really is inevitable and as hard as you try you can't stop it from happening so, there's no reason to cling to the past and waste time being upset over something you had with another person when that is over now."

and of course i believe it's true or else i wouldn't say it but for some fucking reason i'm having a problem getting over something from my past.

3 comments:

happyian said...

Life is change.
People are hypocrites.

There's two constants.

Al said...

i agree with you one hundred percent.

when one person is being treated a certain way they hate it, yet they'll treat another person that exact same way and not care at all that they're doing it.

Anonymous said...

i always find talking about past relationships the most meaningful.
I think its one of those things where the person will really be honest with you, and trust you enough to tell you how they felt at the time, and what went wrong.
I always like talking about those.

And yeah,
its hard to say things,
and keep with it.
But i mean,
as long as you know it,
that change happens,
it's okay to dwell in the past for a lil bit.